This weekend GJS and I went on a marriage retreat. The first talk was about defiant faith. I'm a dyed in the wool rule abider. I want to know what I can and cannot do and stay within those boundaries. Being defiant in faith is a concept that goes against the grain for me. It seems like an advanced maneuver for those who already have the faith thing down pat. I'm still in the shallow part of the faith pool and am not ready to dive in the deep end in this area of spiritual growth.